Mentoring Foundation also thinks with you

It's always nice to have someone think with you and help you get things back in order. Especially if you are faced with a situation or problem that is difficult to solve on your own. You can enlist the help of a Thinker for free. A Thinker can put you in contact with the Limburg Mentoring Foundation. Monique Urlings tells more about her role and the guidance a mentor can offer.

Monique Urlings
Monique Urlings

"A mentor is there for people who temporarily or permanently cannot manage their own affairs in life. Many people do not know of the existence of a mentor. And most certainly do not know that anyone can appeal to one. The Mentoring Limburg Foundation works with volunteers they train themselves. A mentor is appointed by the cantonal judge. The mentor is not an aid worker, but a kind of care director. In practice, this means that as a mentor we may make decisions about someone's care, nursing, treatment and guidance.

Currently, I myself am heavily involved with an elderly lady of 87 years. She still lives independently. She is still quite vital, but some complaints are starting to appear such as forgetfulness and health problems. Walking is less easy and she is asthmatic. Because she is alone - her partner died two years ago - mentorship has been requested. As mentor, I made contact with the family doctor, an occupational therapist and Meander's Home Health . Mrs. has lived at this address for more than 60 years and absolutely does not want to move. It is therefore important to ensure that Mrs. can live a comfortable life in her own environment for as long as possible. I have arranged with the family doctor for someone to come and see how the lady is doing cognitively. The occupational therapist will see what adjustments need to be made to the home. In addition, I Health ensure that Mrs. gets a meal at home five days a week so she no longer has to cook. Gas is shut off because Mrs. is more often forgetful and has more than once let something burn so badly that a fire just barely escaped. When asked about her forgetfulness, she laughingly waved it away, "Oh well, what difference does it make, everyone has that sometimes, right?" Furthermore, I have requested home alarms to ensure that when Mrs. falls she can push a button so that someone will come to look at her.  

Our job is to arrange Health as needed, including practical matters. Does someone need new clothes? Then we arrange a buddy to help with shopping. All that arranging is an intensive job. But if you manage to help someone well, it is very rewarding. Then life is back in order and you're glad you were able to contribute to that."


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